Two brothers live aware of their moms and dads. Don, 17, has a strict curfew. Dan, 16, is not told when you should get back. The real difference is trust. Dad and mom know Dan are going to be house around 10:00. If he’s likely to be later, he constantly calls. But Don never ever lets them know very well what he’s around and he’s lied consistently for many years. For several their openness and communication that is detailed Dan feels free as a bird.