Dear Abby: Can the bride really purchase us to not ever take in?

Dear Abby: Can the bride really purchase us to not ever take in?

Plus: My husband that is non-working hates that has cash.

DEAR ABBY: my buddy “Nan” is preparing her wedding and asked if I, along side our buddies, could be bridesmaids. Fast-forward a months that are few The bride-to-be has become expecting.

We’re having our first get-together being a party that is bridal and she wishes us to provide just nonalcoholic “mocktails” for the girls’ evening in. We asked the maid of honor whenever we may have the choice of alcohol, and she said no for the reason that it’s exactly what the bride wishes.

Could it be rude to take in in the front of the expecting bride? Clearly, i am going to honor Nan’s desires, but I’d like a 2nd viewpoint. Should this no-alcohol policy be in place for many pre-wedding activities (shower, bachelorette celebration, etc. )? Personally I think we’re all grownups and really should have the ability to make our choices that are own. It is never as if we’re planning to get squandered at these specific things. Your thoughts, be sure to?

DEAR BRIDESMAID: generally in most instances, it’s not considered rude to eat liquor in the front of somebody that is abstaining, although a lot of individuals elect to refrain, too. In this situation, the bride will never have specified that she desired no liquor served if she ended up being more comfortable with her wedding party ingesting whenever she couldn’t participate in. Her desires should just simply take precedence.

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