Men can really bugger up a thing that is good and steal defeat through the jaws of triumph within an unfailing fashion inside their relationships.
Then he should have the ability to open himself up to a smarter woman without feeling intimidated and acting defensively if a man is secure – really secure – in himself.
We go directly to the opera, the art gallery, look over together, enter nature together, and simply do more together that is rich and deep. It is a total joy if we are each “sane” enough – i.e. Not committed to enacting a misery narrative in a key of chaos – and can play nicely in the sandbox.
I am hoping that more older guys are safe within the methods age has provided me personally, but there must be a willingness to move on, never to remain stuck in a rut, in order to reinvent and recast yourself in place of bashing to the very same wall that is boring of neurosis – again and again.
That asks plenty, but become pleased – become actually, actually pleased – requires having examples of freedom from deep fears that are seated
Addictions and issues that are unresolved. It takes some struggle that is painful, however the rewards of breaking down. Are so worth every penny. In addition it calls for that the individual that you will be with is of like mind. (happily, most of the extremely intelligent females that i’ve started to understand, cherish and appreciate – inside or outside a partnership – have actually this characteristic. )